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Moments of Appreciation That Keep You Going


It was Thursday evening, and I was catching up on emails before heading home. My eyes were already tired from staring at spreadsheets and lesson plans, so when I saw “Thank you” in the subject line, I almost skipped it, assuming it was an automated response.

But I clicked anyway.

It was from a parent of one of my quieter students, the kind who rarely speaks up in class but is always attentive. She wrote to tell me that her child had come home that week, excited about our new math project, explaining it to the family over dinner.




She said, “I’ve never seen him talk about math with this much energy before. He even tried to teach us how to use Desmos. Thank you for helping him see himself as ‘good at math’ for the first time.”

must have read it three times. 


It wasn’t about grades or test scores; it was about a shift in confidence. And that’s the part of teaching we don’t always see immediately.

That email reminded me that the little adjustments we make, choosing a new activity, encouraging a student to share, and celebrating small wins, can have ripples far beyond the classroom walls.

Appreciation doesn’t always come loudly or often, but when it does, it’s like fuel. It keeps you going through the tough days and reminds you why you started teaching in the first place. Sometimes the kindest words arrive quietly, in the form of an email that changes your whole week.

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